2013 ..That was fast !!!

The New Year is going to be upon us in less than 10 hours and it's going to be the time for
 many people examine themselves with questions like, “What will the next twelve months hold in
store for me, my loved ones, the world? What could I do to become a better person? Can I Achieve what I want ?Let it be anything but the most important thing is to ensure that whatever that we want to achieve is vital & important for our life. Above all , we also need to ensure our resolutions will not fall by the wayside by the end of January :-)

Today, for me I just want to reflect some aspects of my  2013. 2013 was definitely an awesome and  great year for all of us, Yes it is for sure because it would have taught us at least one lesson which strike us not to repeat some mistakes that we used to do. That one lesson can be a lesson for life or even lesson for the season. The ultimate part is, it taught us something. This mean life has given a chance to learn something and we a better in our way.That's what i meant by 2013 was awesome!

I always had some good resolutions all this while but it was just another ordinary year  where my resolutions remained resolutions and another new year is already here . Below are just my very own lessons learned  and I would be glad if there is something that you can pick up from them

PRIORITY OF LIFE

Life is all about having priority. All of us are busy and we have own tasks/objectives/targets to do 
where it can mean nothing to others.This is something very easy to understand but hard to be accepted .When people don't seems to respect our priority, it hurts us but another reminder comes along , we need to understand the priority of others.Failing to understand this  will raise our expectations  and expectations are not met , we tend to blame world around us.Respect peoples priority and eventually our priority will be respected. Let 2013 be the last time we fail to differentiate our & other priorities.Understanding this priority will definitely make our 2014 a better year for us

STAYING POSITIVE

Recently a friend of mine posted in Facebook on being neutral where we do not need to be extremely happy or sad   but  its better not to be inclined to either one side, sad or happy, be in the middle instead -neutral. I agree to this partially  but what I have learned this year 2013  is to stay positive. Miss universe 2005 , Natalie Glebova in her final question said  her most challenging thing in her life to try try to stay positive and I agree or i shall say AGREE.This is not something new for all of us. Determine to be positive  and just see the bright side of things and trying to walk the talk but after few days it just like "hot hot chicken shit" back to the normal life full of negative energy and life of complaining is very common.The one and only reason why this never become practical for most of us is thing did not turnout in the way we want .However there is saying , if things do not happen according to our wish then , God / Universe have something better inn store for us . Putting this aside , choose to see the positive sides only makes us feel good and eventually feel better  as there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Let the light is found in 2014.

GRATITUDE

The word "Thank you" hold a great power and is the best way of conveying out gratitude to anyone at anytime but How many times we have said  it? Thank you for our daily food , when we reach a location safely , something that we plan happened accordingly , our loved ones smile at us for no reason , someone along the way made us smile on our rough day , and above all  when we opened our eyes every morning to witness another brand new day. Most of the time things are taken for granted .
 Eckhart Tolle in his book A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose says  Acknowledging the good that you already have in your life is the foundation for all abundance and I'm totally agree with that  and it is one of the best lesson learned throughout 2013.Thank you is not just a mere way of saying I appreciate what you have given me  but it hold a majestic  meaning where I truly appreciate what I have received  and I'm ready to receive more of it in abundance . May we continue to receive abundance in 2014

I found the following few quotes which are very Apt as we nearing 2014  and full with spirit to implement new year resolution

• Be the change you wish to see in the world - Gandhi

• Thankfulness is the beginning of gratitude. Gratitude is the completion of thankfulness.Thankfulness may consist merely of words. Gratitude is shown in acts.  - Henri Frederic Amiel

• Talking about our problem is our greatest addiction . Break the Habit . Talk bout your joys - Rita Schiano

• Worrying will never change the outcome

• You are a victim of your own mind 

• Choosing to be positive e and having grateful attitude is going to determine how you are going to live your live - Joel Osteen

• H.O.P.E - Hold on pain ends

These are just some of the insights based on what  I faced in 2013 along with many other issues. As many people  are ready with their resolution , I'm ready with mine too and determined I am to fulfill them , YES I WILL  & Best wishes to all you who is reading this.

Happy New year 2014 peeps !!

2013 goes on ..

It has been a looong gap i must say .But it is better to be late than never , right ? Of course

This cant be applied all the time :-)

But why again Blogging ?

This would be the best way to let out the feelings and emotions that booked deep down the heart and mind. This would be one of the most effective ways to overcome loneliness  as well as good platform  to talk to own self

2013 has been a fabulous year so far, yes. It is.

But why???

This is one year which actually taught me about life and has been a great teacher so far. It did remind me of my real challenges and who am I in real. Additionally 2013 actually taught me to see life in a different perspectives.

1. My real good friendships with some of my friends have deteriorated. This would be one of the major change in my life, I’m as shaken, emotionally challenged but life goes on. All have their own reason but we can’t question that, Priority do works and we can’t questions them. A simple solution is to stay positive and there should not be any space in mind to think bad about anyone

2. As long we don't love what we are doing, things can never turn out well

3. The people we mix with & books we read determine where we will be in the next 5 years

4. Selfish people are everywhere, it can be painful, hurting but we need remember it is part of the daily routine, part of our daily lesson, I have been selfish as well at times

5. It is important to grow in maturity from day to day  because getting better from day to day is a purpose of life

6. Always be able to differentiate between urgent and important .

7. Just because there is a reason to be unhappy, doesn’t men that character good characters 

    need to be forgotten 

8. Be hopeful , better days are yet to come 

9. Hope & expectations - play well around it 

10. It is important to be grateful and be positive about life even during difficult moments

11. It is not easy to follow No. 10

but just like the concept of Yin Yang , 2013 is a balanced as well and the year also  promised me great things .

2013 has taught me

• To be a fighter in life
• To stay positive
• To stay healthy - need to look into this option more seriously
• To work on financial intelligence
• That there are plenty of opportunities - pick it accordingly
• That it is important to dream big
• To recognize my real well wishers

I’m grateful this year has been a good to me. I have 61 days to make this year even a greater one for me.I know i have been  a guy with good qualities but I often let my negative feelings to overshadow  the good ones.A lot of my effort  and actions are not completed yet  and some left half way

  and that  sounds  like a reminder that I need to continue to do for the next 61 days..

To be continued ............

It's time for 2013

Happy new year peeps :-)
2013 is here ... 9 days have passed . Looking back at my 2012 journey ...
It was a pretty good year  with a lot of memories  & lessons. Too many things .. too many memories  but life goes on..

Health
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It  was pretty  good year . As i checked , there was total of 3.5 days of Mc  and I am pretty sure this was quite good result.Mostly it was fever and also flu . The main reason for this was my food intake as well as amount of ice water that went in down the esofagus:-)

Another major thing  learn t was "If you are sick , don't force yourself to go to office. Health is the best asset we can have  and employers will not pity on us  or even give credit to us just because we are working with our unhealthy body . I iwll follow this strictly  and  no more giving in for this.
Health also comprises of mental health which i failed badly throughout 2012. I was at my worst in this part of health  and thank God, towards the end of year , i was awakened  and it was not too late to
fill my self with positive thoughts

2013 - To be healthy  throughout the year  and to ensure that I will have healthy food and  hopefully I will not spend my money at any clinic. That is my ultimate goal. Hopefully I can take this up as a challenge and yeah I need to be positive  because that will be the best medicine for person  and how can I miss that !!!

Friends
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This was another part which made my life in 2012 colorful. Many of  them got married and I'm truly happy  for each and everyone of them .Starting from January (Chithra + mugi)...,May  ( Yip, Shantene),June ( Hoshini , Sheela akka & Nelson ne),August ( Sandya),September (maran sathya),October ( Padmini),november ( Nur Hafizah, Kogulakrishnan),Decemeber ( Viji , Sumathi, Minoo) Wishing them a great life ahead:-)

I also got to know few people whom I became close with . Truly thankful to God for that .
This was another year  where gap was created with some of my friends. This gap was not intentional but  it was created just like that as a result of lack of communication and that was one best lesson i learnt on the importance of keeping in touch with friends. Looking at friends circle ,the number has increased with some real good peeople in it .School friends, church friends, Office friends, Uni friends,  special friens and list goes on. Dear God, Thank you for giving me blessings through my friends


Family
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When it comes to family , no one else but my Mom and Dad. Quite a good year. A lot of arguments , tears , scoldings  and it happens all the time.No matter what  happens, mom and dad, they have been by my side all the time. However , this year,  it is extra important where parents start to worry about my future and it's not that I'm complaining  but it just another way of parents showing their concenr on us.The maturity level for all 3 of us  definitely have gone up   and  the level of sensitive has increased as well. So it's time to take note this  and we never realised that  parenst are growing old  and now it is all up to me.



2013 resolution

A lot resolutions are in place.The courage to make this resolutions to become through is needed all the time and again its all depends on me to work on them. Making resolutions is very easy but making then reality is definitely not an easy job.but with the grace of God, blessings of parents I know this year will be a great one for me :-) ALL IS WELL for all of us :-)