NO ONE IS PERFECT

What a perception !!!
Sometimes it just make me to wonder if people are just out there and mix around with people
for the appearance one possessed.People are just so heartless and just feel ashamed of one,s appearance.I'm not sure what is so wrong with people who are dark.... so many nick name.. lorry , buffalo,truck and so on!!!!Damn.. is this the right way ? is this the way those morons were brought up by their parents?or is this the attitude that they learn in their moral classes?

What wrong if people are dark? Its not that they want to be dark!!! Its what God has given to them and im sure those dark people are happy with what they have;Some of the famous people are dark !!! Nelson Mandela, Oprah Winfrey, Ussain Bolt and etc. This is just a few out of hundred of people. So what is the big problem now here peeps?

Next category is Fat / plum people Its very true that Fat is not inherited but also depends on the daily attitude such as food intake.But no matter what . No one have  rights to comment about the size unless you're really care for the person. Even if that is the case, you have the right to say in a polite way . There was once 2 friends bumped into each other after 6 years  and the first question thrown by this one friend to another was " en why u have become SO big???" even without asking hru. I seriously think that is something really bad and wrong way to greet someone.Even , there are "fit" people who feel people who are big in size are not on par with them even to have a photo snap with them Seriously , what is so wrong with this human being????Im not sure which education in the world has taught them that big size people belongs to a community who cannot mix around with others .In addition , being too thin also is a problem where they are recognized as unhealthy people and they are often referred with many nicknames. very sad ....

Next, there is another group of people  who love to make fun of this group of guys and girls who have some extra flesh on their body at certain part ..waist, arm, stomach and etc.Im not sure how to categorize people with such mentality and thinking but definitely not into the group of common sense people.

People are just so obsessed with size and im not sure why. Yes, size matters, we need to take care of our health, proper food diet , proper exercise and this will make us to lead a healthy life style and to remain good size. But proceeding all is the respect that one must show each other. There is no joy by insulting others on their size , colour .. If it is really a sign of concern , put is nice way .. be supportive to them rather than showing off ones' superiority. Even worse is when we insult one purposely knowing that will definitely hurt others.Remember No one is perfect !!! and God treat us the same all the time. It ALL ABOUT US AND  HOW WE ARE TAKING IT !!!

extraordinary

In courtesy of John.C Maxwell

In English language , only five letters separate "'ordinary" from "extraordinary"
The distance between ordinary and extraordinary is shorter than we think.Well, in some areas of life, a second means all the difference in the world. Extraordinary performance is often  separated from an ordinary one by the slightest of margins.Sometimes we just don't understand that when nothing appears to be happening , something is happening  and that will definitely makes a big difference in the "extra"
"W.Clemens Stone stated" There is little difference  in people , but the little difference makes a big difference.The little difference is attitude. The big difference ONLY depends on us!

Attitudes

Characters and attitudes of people play the most important part in our daily life. Different attitudes makes daily life more colorful and interesting . But when the attitude is covered by masks, things become devastated.These bad attitudes become part of our life  where we are tired of encountering them most of the time. Following are some of interesting and strange attitudes that we can come across at any point of time.All that we need to do is.. maintain our good attitude  and be wise enough to act when we encounter following people:-)

1. People tend to ignore us when we are not in the same wavelength as them . Their opinion on us can just change in a second when we don't agree with them?   and we call them friends, buddies, besties at times

2. Sometimes people do ask sorry for their mistake not because they regret but they just want to show their ''so called'' dignity and  want to prove that they are very genuine and honest. These people are even worse than those who refuse to apologize

3. Some people are just so curious where they will never appreciate things that others does for them .
All in their mind is "It is always the opposite party who is responsible to ensure they are in good terms.Reasons given: "I'm busy.. no time..stress.. forgot"

4. At times, people JUST love to insult / brings other down in the form of jokes..After cursing and continuous insult.. they will end up saying  " hey i was joking " . SMART ASS!!!

5. Certain people love to be extra smart when they wan to get good name from everyone so they just love to twist story  when they are with different people  but the best thing is they still manage to maintain good rapport with all and one thing they forget is this will not be PERMANENT

6. There will many times where people just love to help just to show that they are good,. The help given would not be a genuine one but just to show to others that they are too good in every single way

7.People love to treat someone who is good looking , well to do  and also compliment them rather than someone who is very average and  truthful to them

8. Some People are always nice with someone for some reason . As long as the reason is achieved , that would be the end of the relationship..wither with a  complete silence with no reason or it would be a disastrous end for the other person

9. For some people we will become visible when they need something from us.. otherwise invisible mode is always on!!!

10. PeopLE just wanna be so smart and want to look good infront of others and for this they will go to any extend  without thinking and utmostly they will just make us look stupid  and the BEST is they wil make us think that if we are really stupid

LIFE HAS TO GO ON !!!

LIFE HAS TO GO ON

It was a tough period that i have to go through.So many consequences that need to face e due to silly mistakes that I made earlier 

Some prolonging decisions that was not made eventually really stressed me up.I  started to have curiosity on me as a confident person where  I cant control my emotions and ended up showing fake emotions to other. It was good lesson to learn where i need wear seat belt every SINGLE time i get into. No matter what , when you are on road CONCENTRATE. That's all matters to be on safe side !!!

It just so irritating when  you trust someone very blindly . Not everyone will be like us !! our own selves!!1 We have no rights to think like that as everyone have their  own rites to behave as they wish regardless the consequence of the action. All that we need to do is to behave in a way where our action will  not cause problems to others!!! And just don't simply trust people for no reason  and
if we cant keep a secret within ourselves , do not expect others to keep it for us!!!

Always remember the person we love the most can hurt us at unexpected time in an unexpected way . This can be accidental and at times it can be in purpose.Do not take it personally because it will only end up hurting us  and the opposite person don't  feel anything to do with that . See the insult in a way where you can ponder about it positively  and let ourselves to march forward strongly rather than sitting and feel bad on what had happened

This is what i have been doing and it works pretty well. When someone said something bad about us DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY  or even in a joking manner , do not get angry as it will only make you look uglier than before  but just smile ( even though its the HARDEST thing to do at that point of time) .Next , just work on out "bad" things that became the talk of the town if it is really bad.otherwise  just tell " DO I CARE WHAT YOU THINK OF ME" . Life has to go on !!!